1. Focus on what you can control so your self-talks , your words :how you talk about yourself and how you talk about other people your attitude towards life i don't see problem i see solution 2. Don't focus on things you can't control :your past ,your past doesn't exist 3. You are the main character of your life so start acting like it , 4. confidence is about knowing who you are. if you don't know who you are or how to define yourself focus on who you are 5. In order to make your life more structured , you. need to create new routines for for yourself i like to go yoga, meditation, walk-around , i like to do gratitude meditation i like to shower myself. so i have routines 6. Listen if you are out of job right now ,just go find a job anywhere . anything literally . The 1 thing i have always done in my life i have worked because i wanted money ,I don't feel confident in myself if i don't have money because i can't even go out with my friends i am